Did you have an experience when you saw Japanese you didn't know each other, you were neglected even you smiled and/or say "Hello"?
This is because culture difference and Japanese are just shy.
I don't know if every Japanese agrees, but I think typical Japanese manner when people see unfamiliar people is not seeing so mach on the road or somewhere.
If you have a chance to stay good Ryokan in Japan and you are not too conservative, it'a good place and you can enjoy it very much.
It's your choice if you do want to stay Western style hotel as usual though.
Ryokan's is a Japanese style hotel. Tatami room and put Futon for sleep. Hot spring Ryokan is much better. You can enjoy "naked" communication with others. But please do not ware swim suite when you go there.
The first thing I heard when I had decided to live US was:
You have to hold door for next person.
People feel very rude if a door shut in front of him or her. It's a very bad manner.
As far as my experience, "How are you?" is one of the most difficult phrases to reply for most of Japanese. Of course, we learned in school how to reply.
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